The Case Of Arnold's Missing Parents: True Story & Urban Legend Behind Hey Arnold! - Anita's Notebook


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*The Case Of Arnold’s Missing Parents: True Story & Urban Legend Behind Hey Arnold!*

Picture of Arnold from Hey Arnold the tv show with sweater and tiny hat.What’s the truth behind the show Hey Arnold?

I was talking the other day with blog reader Brianna C. about a story we’d both heard that claims to be the answer to this very question.

The story centers around Arnold’s mysterious missing parents who, let’s face it, might as well be ghosts.

In a later episode of the Hey Arnold series we do get the unsatisfying explanation that they had been doing humanitarian work in the jungle and got lost, but…yeah it just doesn’t feel quite right does it?


Picture of Helga Pataki from Hey Arnold hugging a heart shaped picture of Arnold.In a story about kids, parents are really important. In many ways they hold the keys to why a character is the way he or she is. Like in the case of Helga Pataki we can see why she acts the way she does by looking at her home life with her parents.

Helga’s father Big Bob is a loudmouth bully type and her mother Miriam is an alcoholic who can’t go anywhere without constantly clutching a glass full of an intoxicating mix she calls “smoothies”.

And so Helga tries to deal with her problems in ways similar to her parents.

Miriam, the mother of Helga Pataki on Hey Arnold, sitting and drinking booze in an episode of the show.When she’s stressed she becomes a loudmouth like her dad. And though she’s not an alcoholic, we can plainly see that she’s an Arnoldholic. I mean just look at the way she’s constantly clutching that heart shaped picture of Arnold (not to mention worshipping at the secret Arnold shrine lol).

But, through almost all of the Hey Arnold series we don’t really see who Arnold’s parents are. That only leaves his grandparents, and they are what the stories out there claiming to be the truth behind Hey Arnold usually focus on.

Helga Pataki wearing a Hey Arnold mask and cape as part of her worshipping of Arnold.The most popular of all these stories by far is commonly known as The Hey Arnold Theory and it’s been gaining in popularity recently.

If you’ve been following this blog for a while ‘The Hey Arnold Theory’ probably sounds familiar because it’s almost the same name as ‘The Rugrats Theory’ talked about here a while back.

In some ways The Hey Arnold Theory does have similarities to The Rugrats Theory, but in other ways they are very, very different. See for yourself, here is the basic version of The Hey Arnold Theory…

Picture of Arnold's grandfather Phil from the tv show Hey Arnold.According to The Hey Arnold Theory the true story behind Hey Arnold starts with the city that he lives in.

The city the real Arnold lives in is actually a mostly poor area of New York and the real Arnold is just a poor orphan living with his grandparents Gertie and Phil.

Well, at least he believes he’s an orphan.

In reality he is the child of his so-called grandparents Gertie and Phil. Gertie and Phil are mentally unstable and told Arnold a lie that his real parents, of normal age, were lost after a plane crash.

Picture of Arnold's grandmother from Hey Arnold standing on a piano and holding a pig.Because Gertie and Phil were very old when they made Arnold, he was born with a few conditions. One of them is Hydrocephalus and that’s the reason his head has such an odd shape.

The type of Hydrocephalus Arnold suffers from is called Arnold Chiari Syndrome and that’s the reason the show’s creator decided to call the boy in the show Arnold.

In his life the real Arnold is constantly being bullied for his oddly shaped head. This is where another condition that he has comes in. Because of Gertie and Phil’s very old age Arnold suffers from several psychological conditions that makes him see things that aren’t there.

And since he’s bullied a lot he prefers to escape into an imaginary world… with imaginary friends.

Picture of some kids from Hey Arnold: Arnold, Gerald, Stinky, and Sidney.That’s the reason the other characters in Hey Arnold have weird shaped heads too. It makes him feel like he’s normal and no one can pick on him because of his head.

So how did all this become a tv show? According to The Hey Arnold Theory the creator of the show got lost in New York one night, and since it was getting pretty late he decided to just find the closest hotel and stop there.

While doing this he came across a nine year old boy, a child of two people who were clearly too old to be having kids.

The creator of the show saw that the boy was mentally unstable and believed in all the things that he had made up, and so decided to sit and talk with him.

Picture of Arnold from the tv show Hey Arnold looking down and looking sad.He felt really sorry when he discovered that the boy only had imaginary friends. He felt like he needed to do something, so he asked the boy if he could tell his story and promised that he’d use it to make sure the boy’s life would get better.

But the creator of the show didn’t keep his word. He just used the sad and strange story to make a tv show, which became very popular. He got rich and didn’t care anymore about the boy who was still suffering back in the poor neighborhood.


Picture of Arnold from the show Hey Arnold talking in front of the buildings in his neighborhood.Whoa right? This story is really different than many other ‘theories’ behind tv shows out there because it portrays the creator of the show as the villain of the story.

The creator steals the idea for Hey Arnold from a poor disfigured kid and rakes in the cash after making a tv show based on his life. But…is any of The Hey Arnold Theory even true?

The funny part is that there is a guy that created Hey Arnold, but he didn’t need to steal the story from someone else because Hey Arnold is based on himself as a kid. Specifically how he felt when he was younger.

Picture of Craig Bartlett, the creator of the show Hey Arnold and the person who Arnold is based on.So the true story behind Hey Arnold is this: A guy named Craig Bartlett loved cartoons and animation, and he dreamed about making his own animated tv show one day.

He had an idea for a show based on what he was like as a kid, a daydreamer with a vivid imagination. He would take experiences that happened to him as a kid and work them into the stories of the show.

After college he got a job working on the Rugrats cartoon and while there he got a chance to make his dream come true. He convinced Nickelodeon to let him make a show about a daydreaming football-headed kid and his adventures.

The reason the explanation for Arnold’s parents doesn’t feel quite right is because in the excitement and hard work of making the show, Craig Bartlett didn’t really spend time coming up with a solid backstory for Arnold’s parents.

A picture of the opening credits for the cartoon Hey Arnold.But as the show got more and more popular people began to care a lot about Arnold and fans of the show wrote letters asking what happened to his parents.


The letters started to really pile up and the creator of Hey Arnold knew that for the sake of the fans he had to figure out the backstory of Arnold’s parents.

Eventually he decided that since Arnold was such a good person his parents had to be really good people too. He came up with the story of how they were missing because they’d been trying to do good work in a far off place and accidentally got lost in the jungle.

Picture of Arnold's parents (from Hey Arnold) hiking deeper into the jungle.This was written into the show but by then it was too late for many of the fans. Tons of people had already came up with their own stories as to why Arnold’s parents were missing, and the show’s unsatisfying ‘lost parents’ idea didn’t help much.

So there you have it, Arnold definitely was not the child of two demented elderly people who lied to him. He was simply the child of parents whose backstory was so vague, for so long, that people thought that they had been made up as a cover story for a dark, real-life secret.


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  1. Mandy F. says:

    Very interesting! I’m glad it didn’t turn out as dark as the theory. That would have taken all the fun out of it. :(

    • Hi Mandy,

      I agree, I’d be pretty horrified if The Hey Arnold Theory turned out to be a true story.

      As it is there’s lots of people out there who believe that it’s true and have said “my childhood is ruined!” like with The Rugrats Theory.

      • Peyton D. says:

        Hey Arnold is supposed to be based in the true story; Arnold or Arney,was a young boy with “Arnold’s Disease” and Craig Bartlett had seen Arney and thought about making his own show about him. But Craig had told Arney’s parents that he would pay for the surgery to help Arney. But Craig had sadly lied about that and had never paid for the surgery. The surgery was close to $100,000 or something like that. Then when Nickalodeon found out about it people had started saying that the manager of Nickalodeon fired Craig.

        The rugrats theory is as simple but just search it up and you’ll find it

  2. Ariana says:

    Woah. Can u send me a story of the Rugrats Theory.
    I never knew that behind all this cartoon is a totally different thing. :-0

    . p.s.what is URL??

    • Hi Ariana,

      Yeah check out this post it talks about The Rugrats Theory and which parts are true or not:

      Angelica Was Real: Shocking Urban Legend & True Story Behind The Rugrats

      Hope you like it!

    • Peyton D. says:

      All of the Rugrats are dead and figments of Angelica’s imagination. Chuckie (the anxious redhead) died with his mother, which explains why his father, Chaz, is such a mess. The main character, Tommy, was a stillborn and his death had a lasting effect on his father: Stu’s obsession with making toys stems from the trauma of losing his son. As for Phil and Lil, the twins with slightly ambiguous genders—their mother, Betty, had an abortion. Knowing that Betty was pregnant and then not, Angelica didn’t know the sex of the baby and thus created twins to include both sexes.

  3. Emily says:

    What is up with the theorys for cartoons?This kind of stuff messes me up. Dx It really does Dx While my sister says “Hmmm intresting…” While her mind is saying “YEAH THIS IS AWESOME AWESOME AWESOME HAHAHAHA YEAH I HAVE TO SHOW THIS TO EVERYONE!!!” I can read it on her face…. x3

    • Hi Emily,

      Looks like ‘theories’ behind cartoons are getting more and more popular.

      I think people have always wondered if there were stories behind cartoons or other kinds of tv shows and came up with their own theories as to what those stories could be. It’s just these days it’s much easier for the most interesting or shocking theories to be sent from person to person so that before long certain theories are known all over the world.

  4. susan says:

    That’s weird and cool

  5. yova says:

    That’s so weird when I whas a kid that whas one of me favorite shows