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anita; WHAT WAS YOUR PURPOSE ON DESTROYING SIR PATRICK’S LIFE. HE & I JUST RECIEVED A CALL FROM HOARDERS , NOT TO EVER CALL THEM AGAIN, BECAUSE OF YOU ! ONLY A COWARD WOULD WRITE ABOUT SOMEONE TO DESTROY THEIR LIFE ,FROM A REMOTE LOCATION LIKE ALASKA, BECAUSE YOU KNOW THAT YOU ARE SAFE , LIVING WHERE KNOWONE WILL COME TO KILL YOU ACCEPT THE BEARS!
BUT DESTROYING MY LIFE , MY FRIENDSHIP, MY BACKING HIM, MY STICKING UP FOR HIM, MY STANDING UP FOR HIM, NOT KNOWING ABOUT HIM UNTIL ABOUT 45 MINS. AGO REALLY HURT !
I HOPE YOU FEEL HAPPY ON DESTROYING MANY LIVES OF PEOPLE BECAUSE WITH ALL HIS WACKY STORIES A PROD. FROM HOLLYWOOD, WERE TO DO A STORY OF HIS LIFE , FOR TV. SO YOU PUT ALL THOSE PEOPLE OUT OF WORK.
PLUS ANOTHER NETWORK WANTED TO DO A SHOW THAT WAS LIVE, IN A BUS ROAD SHOW ACROSS AMERICA CALLED “SEARCHING FOR WENDY ” SIR PATRICK WAS TO MAKE 1.5 K, AND I WAS TO MAKE $200 K, A YEAR. I NEVER MADE MORE THAT 20K A YR. ON THAT ROAD SHOW.I AM UNEMPLOYED FOR ABOUT 1.5YRS. AND I’M BROKE. SO I WANTED YOU TO KNOW HOW MANY LIVES “YOU” ANITAWIRAAWAN “YOU” DESTROYED. WITCH WITH A “B”. THANKYOU !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Oh Steve, I do feel sorry for you but probably not in the way you had hoped to evoke with your comment.
After your first comments on the Epic Hoarder blog I did several hours of scouring public records in an effort to find even a tiny bit of evidence that would corroborate Sir Patrick’s story (because hey how cool would that be?), but there is nothing. Be honest, have you found anything either? Have you ever looked?
Unfortunately Sir Patrick is a convicted sex offender and felon, this is a very easy thing to double check. I did not make him commit the offense against the 22 year old woman or the other actions he has done. Also, amongst other things he is a well known POW faker.
And are you saying that if I didn’t live in Alaska someone would come and kill me? Who would be doing the killing, you or Sir Patrick?
And if those fantastical sounding tv deals were real in any sense then it wouldn’t have lasted long being based on a person who is a convicted sex offender and who leaves evidence of his other offenses all over the internet.
I feel sorry for you that you are wrapped up in the fictions of a mind that is not even your own. The truth did not need me to tell it to be true.
Thank you for your strong attempts to be polite even under the stress of extreme emotion. And of course thanks as always for commenting and good luck in finding your freedom!
-Anita
Funny how Steve Vallillo blames you for the fallout of “Patrick’s” lies (like the story of his life would have passed the first five minutes of fact-checking ). You don’t make the news, you report it!
Bhigh,
It makes me wonder what kind of evidence it would take to make Steve realize what’s really happening. Would even seeing the horrible things happening convince him or would he just blame it on John McCain or some other excuse? So sad what a way to go about life…
Well, mr. sisson, looks like its all comming back to bite you. I was waiting for this. Is the nightmare really going to be over.
I think Steve is an emotionally troubled and mentally disturbed person attracted by the good doctor’s pap psychological advice. Sir Patrick preys on emotionally/psychologically vulnerable people.
Hi Monmouth,
Yeah you can really see how he targets the vulnerable by how he set up his website. ‘Finding Yourself’ ‘Personal Peace And Healing’ set to soothing music…I wonder how many women/girls fell into that trap.
if you want more Information please contact me at my E-mail address. you ust hit the tip of the iceburg.
Im just trying to keep others from being taken by him
I think the only TV show that would run his story would be “Law & Order SVU”.
Hey, that might be a good idea…someone forward this to NBC! Sure there hasn’t been a murder (has there?) but they could throw one in as artistic licence.
Ripped from the headlines! I am a Law & Order addict LOL.
It’s good stuff. I’m kind of hot for Detective Benson. Who would play the Sir Patrick character?
Casey Siemaszko (prior Law & Order experience) or Jason Alexander (Criminal Minds bad guy, short and creepy!)
Both not old enough.
Okay, okay…how about Wilford Brimley then?
I’m not familiar with him…Perhaps Frank Kelly off a show called “Father Ted” that ran in the UK? He’s got the age and pretended nationality right. Or perhaps this Wilford Brimley (I googled him. He likes porridge and has diabetes–hopefully the two aren’t connected. Could we get him to shave his jaunty moustache and pretend he likes dusty dolls and gourmet cooking…with roaches!?) Perhaps Peter O’Toole can play SP’s mental image of himself?
lol!!!!!!!!!!!!
Don’t you know how to spell NBC on your computer , How Mentally disturbed are you that you can’t Spell yourself !
Is that Sir Patrick again?
I thought he had buggered off.
Hi Monmouth,
Blog analytics indicate that it was probably Steve.
…Also, Steve, what was the meaning of those random words you strung together? I’m mesmerised. Is English your fifth language? Perhaps you should write in your native tongue and somebody somewhere (the moon?) will understand you. You are absolutely lunar, mate.
On the hoarders episode he tearfully said he was keeping all the dolls because they reminded him of his ‘neighbor’s daughter’ that ‘died’ I don’t know about you but this sounds like a classic serial killer move to me. One thing is for certain, Sir Patrick is one disturbed individual
they remind him of his daughter that he called his little princess.she was blond and blue eyed. and a Daddys girl.
Yeah and my sister Michela Renne Sisson.
Hey, erm, Steve, was the TV show supposed to be about the mad adventures of a compulsive liar and his trusty, brainwashed sidekick?
If you have gone off your drugs, you need them, dude. Life is so much better when you’re not totally out of your mind. You following that Sir Patrick guy is like the blind leading the blind.
Hey Steve, I would think twice about defending ROGER SISSON. He has destroyed more lives than you can Fathem. I am his fifth born child. He walked out on me and my 4 siblings when I was only two, but not before scaring each and every one of us, I am not going to go into details becouse I would like to protect what is left of my family, But he is a child molester. oh yeah and DOES NOT MATTER as you call yourself (Michela Renee Sisson) is your daughter you sick freak. THE SHOW IS OVER
I have heard that Sir Patrick has ended his own life.
I was told that it was an attempt but had somehow been ‘interrupted’ by the police and that now he’s under observation.
True it was an attempt but I heard he is alive and locked up in the nut house.
I have been reading your blog and it is very interesting. Hello from St. Croix, U.S. Virgin Islands
Hi Amelia,
Thanks and thanks for the comment :).
Hi Anita,
I believe it’s against the law to threaten anyone even through the internet. Although he did not actually say he would come to kill you, the intent is there, considering the circumstances. The persons identity could be traced. Thanks for getting involved.
Hi Interested,
You’re right, also I’m pretty sure if the threat crosses state lines it becomes a federal offense.
It’s quite simple for authorities to trace who said what on the internet in most cases. Even an amateur like me can do fairly well with clues like…um…let’s say someone constantly searching AOL for STEVE VALLILLO and commenting here.
Anyway, thanks for your comment Interested I appreciate it.
I think Stephen Ray Vallillo likes to associate with Sir Patrick, because he idolizes people like his parents. His father, Romeo “Ray” Vallillo was an Army veteran, who as a PFC (E-3) “was an MP at the White House.” His mother “worked for the FBI” (as office staff).
http://www.legacy.com/obituaries/heraldtribune/obituary-preview.aspx?n=romeo-vallillo&pid=86276758&referrer=1818
http://scn.eed.sunnewspapers.net/Olive/ODE/north_port_sun/LandingPage/LandingPage.aspx?href=U0NOLzIwMTAvMDIvMTk.&pageno=MTc.&entity=QXIwMTcwMA..&view=ZW50aXR5
I thought the servicemembers who served at the White House were Marines, not Army? Has it not always been this way? Why would there be MPs at the White House? The Secret Service has been protecting the President since 1901, so why the need for MPs? Did Vallillo Sr. like to spin a good yarn too? My girlfriend thinks the story is “iffy,” but she claims not to know everything about “the old days”.
True Steve does.
LISTEN MR. ED ,THE ARMY MP’S WERE AT THE WHITE HOUSE IN ,1941 OR ALL THE PICTURES OF THE WHITE HOUSE ON THE INSIDE AND OUTSIDE WERE LIES & THE “AIN’T ” SO GO TO YOUR HISTORY BOOKS AND LOOK IN UP SHERLOCK !
WHO ARE YOU TO PRY INTO MY DECEASED PARENTS HISTORY. SO CEASE AND DESIST.
MY DAD WAS STATIONED AT THE WHITE HOUSE ,SLEPT IN THE BARRACKS BEHIND THE W.H. & WAS A MACHINE GUNNER ON TOP OF THE WHITE HOUSE. I HAVE PICTURES TO PROVE IT. SO GO SPEND SOME TIMES AT YOUR LIBRARY ! MR. HOLMES
Steve, when your wife comes back from China she isn’t going to be very happy with your shenanigans.
That’s Ms. Holmes.
Secondly, is prying into things that published openly for the public on the internet some sort of crime?
Please DO post your pictures. I’m sure they are fascinating.
You could perhaps be a very sweet person if you weren’t so entangled with Sir Pats.
TIM SISSON:
PLEASE GET IN TOUCH WITH ME , WOW , I CAN’T BELIEVE ALL THAT YOU SAY IS TRUE.
Espaecially when you said Michela Renne, he said she died , is that true ? Oh, it’s all hitting me now , ALL of his lies are coming together. Where do you live Tim ?, I can’t believe he let me put him on National TV. If he had all of this to hide & keep secret. All of those LIES TO ME TOO !!! i CAN’T BELIEVE HE SWINDLED ME TOO WITH HIS LIES !!!!
jUST WHAT IS TRUE? tIM WHERE DO YOU LIVE SO i CAN CONTACT YOU? i DON’T WANT TO PUT MY CONTACT INFO ON THIS BLOG , TOO MANY PEOPLE ARE PICKING ON ME . I was just a choir member who 3 yrs. ago he invited to his house after church. I saw the Museum that he was living in with Roaches crawling across dinner plates & want me to finish eating , I left !.
Tim, he has told me that he was born in Dingle, Ireland , is that true ? 2-He has told me he was beat by his mother & chained to a coal bin ,is that true? 3- He has told me & TV that Father Flannagan took him to “boys Town ” is that true ? 4- He told me he was raped there by the big boys & Priests ( I know that is true , LOL ) 5- He said he joined the Marines @ 14 , Tor F ? 6- He said he was a Tunnel Rat in Vietnam t of F ? 7- He made colonel @ 21 yrs. old T or F ? 8- 47 Decorated medals ? OMG, I can’t belive this & all of his lies !!! OMG !!!
See EVERYBODY ELSE , I DID NOT KNOW ALL OF THIS UNTIL I SAW PATRICK’S KIDS , TIM & PHYLLIS * MICHELA RENNE ? He told me he was going to adopt her & and she died !!!
Tim leave me a way to contact you.
Steve vallillo 10–6-10
Steve,
We all understand this man took advantage of you. What we were gently trying to tell you early on is that none of these things he claimed could possibly be true. No one was picking on you, you simply refused to believe the facts that were presented on this site-the man you know as Sir Patrick had you convinced we were all lying monsters…er, vultures. When you began to attack Anita, yes, some nasty things were said. Everyone here has seen the effort she’s put into exposing Patrick/Roger for the fraud he is so that he doesn’t do this to someone like you again.
Steve,
It was never my intention to pick on you, but your postings on here were so nasty. I sincerely apologise to you that I have offended you. Amy is right, a lot of unkind words have been said. I do hope that Phyllis or Tim contacts you.
It is wicked how Roger E. F. Sisson has used you. I have no doubt that you must have a heart of gold to tolerate his abuse.
So you are not in suspense until the family contacts you, most of your questions have been answered by them already.
Tim, he has told me that he was born in Dingle, Ireland , is that true ?
—No. Phyllis said he was born in Detroit (in the projects) 24. September 1945.
2-He has told me he was beat by his mother & chained to a coal bin ,is that true?
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3- He has told me & TV that Father Flannagan took him to “boys Town ” is that true ?
—No, although he did go to Boys Town because he was out of control, always in trouble and his mother couldn’t deal with it.
4- He told me he was raped there by the big boys & Priests ( I know that is true , LOL )
—No rape occurred, but he was beat up by other boys.
5- He said he joined the Marines @ 14 , Tor F ?
—Not sure, but he was already 19 to 20 by the time Marines were first sent to South Vietnam (If I read Wikipedia right).
6- He said he was a Tunnel Rat in Vietnam t of F ?
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7- He made colonel @ 21 yrs. old T or F ? 8
—He was an enlisted man. Colonels are officers.
- 47 Decorated medals ? OMG, I can’t belive this & all of his lies !!! OMG !!!
—Phyllis Sisson says: “he bought his medals at the px on base.”
See EVERYBODY ELSE , I DID NOT KNOW ALL OF THIS UNTIL I SAW PATRICK’S KIDS , TIM & PHYLLIS * MICHELA RENNE ? He told me he was going to adopt her & and she died !!!
—She’s alive.
We all wanted to help you see this stuff. But you blew up at us. Roger Sisson has lied to you and used you. That is why he wrote about abandoning you. He was worried about what you’d do to him when you find out. If I were you, Steve, I’d call the cops and let them know you have found a fugitive. Isn’t that what he is? Living under a fake name, harrassing women, not registering as Florida as a sex offender? Steve, good luck. I am sorry you ever met him, but you might be able to help other people by turning him in.
EdM
Thanks EdM for taking time out to answer Steve’s questions.
Steve,
Please don’t ask the Sisson’s to post where they live. Don’t you think that would be dangerous to them?? Sir Patrick is not right in the head and is dangerous. Don’t give him any information about the Sisson family, they have children for goodness sake.
You can prove to the world that you were duped by Sir Patrick by how you act now. Show the world the good hearted Steve and not the Steve that was a puppet of Sir Patrick.
(to Steve) …for example you could do as EdM suggested and contact the authorities. I highly suggest staying away from Sir Patrick, he is not right in the head as it is but could be more dangerous if cornered.
EdM:
How can you get me in touch with Tim & Phyllis ?
How old are they ?
How old is Michela Rene,now ?
Is their mother still alive & what is her name ?
He had a yard sale last weekend. In the first 2 hours, 75 cars pulled up, he gave all a hard time saying , I paid $75.00 for that why would I sell it to you for $10.00, & then yelled at them they, all left He sold a 3 ft. long pillow for $5.00. I found a Match-box car , a lady said how much? I said $1.00. she went to pay Pat-roger, and he said , NO$35.00, IT’S A COLLECTABLE. She said “you;re crazy !” He looked at me saying “I DIDN’T KNOW THAT !”
All day he sold about $ 100.00. I sold about 50.00 in a hr.He saw a man taking the Broke electric piano , he said how MUCH , I SAID TEN.
HE SAID ” YOU SOLD THE F___ING NIGGER THAT FOR TEN BUCKS , GET THE HELL OFF MY PROPERTY & DON’T COME BACK. so I left . I went back yesterday to p/u my dining room table & 6 chairs ,I was trying to sell. He wouldn’t give me the asian carpet he gave me that he put under my table, because I owed him the $ from the NIGGER HE YELLED OUT TO ME.
I love how Steve is too delicate for cussing and edits the eff word but the N word just spills off his keyboard with ease…
Classy character!
Juicy,
Oh yeah and in all caps too. Ugh. It’s like he enjoys typing it out or something.
Bingo! That’s it exactly…like he enjoys it. I love how Steve and his best most elegant and godly mate “Sir Patrick” just keep upping the crazy ante. Just when I think they’re as batshit as they can get they knock it up a few notches. On another note: nice job, Detective Anita…the world needs someone to call people on their crazy ass ways, and you’ve done that in spades!
Thanks Juicy, though I have to say there’s a whole bunch of people doing this work now. (Shout out to all the message board people and anonymous tipsters :D.)
Upping the crazy ante is right lol. Or should I say UPPNG THE MOST GENTLE GEENTLEMEN OF RENESANCE ESKIMO MUG N BOMB EXTREEM!!! JOHN MCAIN MOVIE DEAL POW VULTURE CONSPIRACY!!! BITCH WITH A “W” THANK YOU!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Oh bless your friggin’ heart, that be me most real cornucopia of extreme elegant LOL of the day!
Steve,
Stop using the n-word.
Why is anything about a family you do not know, a family that has been hurt, any of your business?
Why do you need to contact the family?
Is Roger Sisson, the self-styled Sir Patrick, still asking favours from you?
Paul
Paul
EdM:
I was writing for 1/2 a hr. & THE SCREEN WENT BLANK , yOU KNOW HOW THAT FELLS??? pLEASE GET ME TO TALK TO THE SISSON FAMILY, ASAP. i WAS telling you how he kicked me out of his yard sale in front of people there buying stuff. and yelled out loud , YOU SOLD THAT FN NIGGER THAT (BROKEN) ELECTRIC PIANO FOR TEN BUCKS ARE U FN CRAZY ? , GET OUT OF MY YARD & LIFE .
WELL HOORAY FOR THE NIGGER ” WENT BACK THAT NITE ,I GUESS & SLASHED ALL 4 NEW TIRES ON ROGER’S CADDILAC !!!! HE just got new ones 2 weeks ago when they slashed 8 tires on both cars , costing him $1200.00. I told hoim to buy used tires , but he wouldn’t listen.
Have tim or Phyllis e-mail me @ SRVallillo@aol.com
Thanks & god Bless !
Steve
Steve,
Please don’t use that type of language e.g “Well Hooray for the N**** Went Back….” Using the N-wors is offensive to me.
I also think it should be up to the Sissons to contact you, if they chose. To be honest, I think they need some peace, and can read what you have to say here.
As Ed noted, I’m glad to see you’ve come around and can see Roger Sisson clearly.
Regards,
Paul
Picking up my jaw from the floor.
Don’t know what to say right now.
I agree with you, Paul, that if the Sissons wish to contact Steve, they now have his details.
Watch out for Steve, he has been emailing me asking a lot of scary questions about the Sisson family. Like where they live, how did I find them, and he wants a picture of Michaela. Not good!
Oh and he says he’ll tell me some secrets in return. No thanks!
Good call, Anita. My creep-o-meter if off the charts right now, too.